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So, they impose upon it a layout, development, aims, and paths. This is often magical wondering.
“If only he tried out difficult more than enough”, “If he only definitely desired to recover”, “If only we identified the correct therapy”, “If only his defences were down”, “There MUST be something very good and worthy under the hideous facade”, “NO You can be that evil and harmful”, “He must have intended it otherwise” “God, or an increased getting, or even the spirit, or maybe the soul is the answer and The solution to our prayers”.
The Pollyanna defences in the abused are aimed against the emerging and Terrible comprehending that humans are specks of dust in a totally indifferent universe, the playthings of evil and sadistic forces, of which the narcissist is 1 – and also versus the unbearable realization that their agony means almost nothing to everyone but themselves. Practically nothing in any respect. It's got all been in vain.
The narcissist retains this kind of pondering in barely undisguised contempt. To him, it is an indication of weak spot, the scent of prey, a gaping vulnerability. He works by using and abuses this human require for get, superior, and which means – as he makes use of and abuses all other human needs. Gullibility, selective blindness, malignant optimism – they are the weapons from the beast. And also the abused are tricky at get the job done to provide it with its arsenal.